Hello ma, thanks for your advice on relationships, family issues and life style I must commend your good work. Over the years I have been your fan on radio, television, recently have also added your blog to it and I found it very informative and educative, your blog is must visit because it serve as an eye opener, there’s a lot to learn from it, Thanks a lot. please my question is why do some people act in a certain way.
Jude Lekki Lagos.
Thanks for been such a great fan, I appreciate you. To your question why some people act in a certain way, it can be for different reasons, just the way there’s no two same person, goes to show that our attitude differs likewise our reaction over issues. For you to have your sanity begin to see and accept people the way they are; Appreciate their strength and weakness just the way some will also take you for who you are. Avoid high expectation . most importantly create room for mistakes knowing that we are human and there is no perfect being. if the person is a friend, try find out from the person the reason for their action, you never know, may be the person is having or had a bad day. learn to discuss issues or actions that you don’t like, it is better to clear issues than ignoring issues. Try not to act on assumption because it can affect you and your relationship with the person. finally have a space for forgiveness, let’s face it, in life people will disappoint you, people will act differently to you reasons best known to them, people will be humans not supernatural beings position your mind that this is the reality of life but in all this some people are very nice therefore don’t allow person’s action towards you, change your opinion about people, don’t shut your heart, trust me, you will come across nice people, keep an open mind and don’t allow anybody to change who you are, forgive and move on.
