Hello Harriet, i am one of your fan on Television, Radio and Instagram, you are doing a great job helping relationships and marriages, keep up the good work and God bless you. Here is my issue my husband and i for a very long time are like flatmate now that we are instructed to stay at home, no work which is our escape route. please i need your counsel on what to do. Thanks Anonymous.
I must commend you for seeking advice, a large number of people are actually facing the same situation in a time like this, how many are looking for solution that’s the question, congratulation for taking the right step because in a time like this we must learn to resolve our differences in order to fight the virus at hand together with love. first step is to see how we can break the silence so that we can stay communicating again. you can start by greeting and asking how he is doing, bring up light conversation concerning the happenings and how you guys should stay safe as a family. Encourage eating and praying together as a family. He is your husband and you understand his personality type so try work with it. No matter the issue it can be resolved so gradually at a proper time visit the issue at the right time and make peace with him. Some people will say why should i be the one to make the move, listen; it doesn’t matter who makes the first move, see it that it makes you the bigger person, after all what does it matter. A peaceful home is the best thing that can happen to anybody so use this opportunity to settle with your husband and stay enjoying your marriage as husband and wife not living as flatmate. Take care of yourself and each other, stay safe!
