Respond to Sexual Intimacy in Marriage.


Good day Madam, Thanks very much for everything, things are really working perfectly Fine now. This advice you have given me is an eye opener to me because I know what my wife likes and when she needs it, first I started by minding What I eat and making sure I help her out in the house chores especially watching cloth and cook. Then I started buying gift for her also I do make out time to play with her in dynamic way from their everything sparked up, Madam I never know what I have been missing since in the bedroom. I go first and second round it seems I have just started yet I can categorical tell you that she has taken me to the next level with a lot of acrobatic display nothing like Christian here in it. She has been feeling dizzy this days she confessed that am now doing my job well, right now I have not told her the secret. Please Madam adding styles from movie are they good for us? Because am thinking of that now. Thanks

Happy new month Madam, thank you for all the replies I must say that am highly grateful because if not for your counsel I couldn’t have had a better moment in my home,  How I wish you could see the expression on my face as i am right now because your words of wisdom have restructured  my home. Thank you because the last time I remember been in this mode of gladness was on my honeymoon night. Right now everything is Fine but there is some guilty I do feel because after she starved me of sex for like 3 month so that period I was in Ibadan I had an affair with my former girlfriend in the hotel.  Madam the truth is that I did it because I couldn’t hold back my hunger & right now I can’t tell my wife because that meant end the happiness in our home. I have asked God to forgive me but my wife still feels I did something bad anytime we are together. Thank you & God

We wrote about how to maintain sexual intimacy in marriage using Mr. Dan’s situation to address the issue. Today we are happy to share his feedback with his permission, like he said in his email that who knows, may be his story can be of help to someone out there. Thanks a lot for sharing your experience with us, we appreciate you a lot. Let’s do a recap for those people who might be reading the article for the first time, Mr. Dan actually emailed us about the total decline of sexual intimacy in his marriage, he wanted us to help him. We gave out some tips to assist him whom he applied and the above mail is the current situation in his home which he willingly asked us to publish.

 Now, moving on

Response;    you can add any style, to spice up your sex life with your wife is really not a bad idea, remember that marriage is the only legal platform that you are allowed to explore and enjoy sexual intimacy. She is your wife and if that makes both of you happy, while not. Sex is for bonding and procreation, so having a satisfying sex with your spouse will create a strong bond between you and your wife. Be open with your spouse; feel free to discuss your desire with your wife. Enjoy quality time alone with her; you can watch your films with her at home with some snacks and drink.  When it comes to sexual intimacy in marriage, people approaches are different therefore, understanding what is suitable for your marriage is very vital.

In situations like yours, infidelity is one common challenge, not every spouse can be discipline or rather can hold on when they are be deny of sex, only a few can stand this challenge. Infidelity by any standard is not justifiable. No situation makes it right, considering the outcome of unfaithfulness, which the feeling of guilty is not left out; the respond to this feeling is genuine repentance and finding forgiveness. We learn every day and no one is above mistakes, that’s why we are human beings striving to make right in the way we live our lives. Infidelity is a big problem that can destroy a marriage if not treated properly.


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Harriet Ogbobine
Mrs Harriet Ogbobine is an educator, professional social counsellor and motivational speaker who has worked (and still working ) for various organisations and attended various courses on life issues: relationships, work, family, crisis and stress management, healthy lifestyle among others. She has worked for Good Counsel Network UK as a social welfare and publicity counsellor. Counselling Coordinator for DoctorsHealthInitiative. Mrs Harriet Ogbobine is the principal consultant of IGGI POP Nig. Ltd, A facilitator for Ministry of Women Affairs Poverty Alleviation Lagos State, magazine ( Today's Woman) The Nation News Paper Columnist Mrs. Harriet Ogbobine has conducted very numerous and regular motivational talks and counselling in various sectors both in Nigeria and the UK over the years. She is the Family, Relationships and lifestyle residence counselor for family Life, Saturday call in live show on Top radio 90.9FM at 9.30- 11am and co host/counselor on I Need A Partner live call in show on NTA2 which shows on DSTV 369,GOTV114, STARTIMES 104, every Friday at 10pm with a repeat same time on Saturday. She has featured on various Tv talk shows and heard on various radio stations. with her work experience over the years helping people with life issues especially those experiencing one form of abuse or the other for easy understanding and clarity, in passing the necessary message across to the grassroots, she relates in English, Pidgin English, Yoruba, Ibo, and Edo as the case may be. Contact: 08054682598 Instagram; HarrietOgbobine Twitter; @bineharrietj Ogudu GRA Lagos Nigeria
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